Changes to my site

I decided to make a few cosmetic changes to my site. I thought about trying a new theme completely, and spent hours working on it. Then I showed Sarah both asking which one she liked better (she didn’t know which was current and which wasn’t). She picked this current design I made, and honestly I liked it better than all the work on the other theme too. ;) So I just made a few changes on this one, and might make a couple of more in the future.

But the big thing is that I’ve added a new Linky widget. If you have a Linky account, I would love for you to follow my blog through there. It’s real easy to use, and can be used on any site. You can see the widget on the right side of my site, or you can sign up right here.

This one is for this blog, JoAnn’s Journey.

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This one is for my creative blog, JoAnn’s Creativity

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Oh, and did you see the pictures I took of the pretty flowers in my yard? You can see it here on my creativity blog.

Lastly, a picture to share with you. Sarah is just about done with school. She’s finishing up some experiments she never go to before during the year. I like this picture of her working.

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Mother’s Day 2013

We celebrated Mother’s Day today, Wednesday, since Paul had to work last Sunday. Well actually we did celebrate a bit on Sunday, they gave me my presents, 2 movies and a JoAnns gift card! :D

Today Paul grilled some yummy steaks, Sarah made me some cookies and home made potato skins (my favorite) and we enjoyed a fun time of being together. We also pulled out our pellet guns and had a blast shooting them. It is time to start heading up in the mountains and shooting our real guns. ;)

Here are some fun pictures of our day.

My guys like their guns. :)
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I love this photo.
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She is a natural shot. I’m one proud mama.
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I love these next two photos, Paul showing the kids about their posture while shooting.
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Paulie looks so natural holding that gun. ;)
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It’s not the best picture of me, but I really enjoyed the day. :)
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Paulie’s birthday

Paulie had a good birthday last week. It was simple, but fun and he was happy with what we got him and our lunch we took him on. Here are some pictures of his fun day. :)

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Birthdays, baking and spring break

Today is the start of our spring break, and we are all quite excited! :D Paul doesn’t have the week off, but the kids do and that means I don’t have any grading to do all week. After this, we’ll only have 6 weeks left of school. I find that so hard to believe, but I know we need this break. We were all getting a bit stressed and just needed a break. We don’t have anything planned, which is fine, relaxing is all I want to do.

Tomorrow, Sunday, is Paulie’s 16th birthday!! We plan on going to church, then take him out for a birthday lunch. After that we’ll come home and he’ll open up his presents. I of course can’t share what we got him, but I know he’ll like them a lot. I bought a gluten free cake mix to try. It baked well (it’s cooling in the kitchen right now), but of course I don’t know how it will taste. I’m really praying it tastes ok. It won’t be a completely gluten free day though. Paulie is leaning towards going to our local Chinese buffet for lunch. Yes, we know that eating gluten free there will not be a possibility, but we want Paulie to be able to go where he wants. I’m also praying that this will help us know for sure if Sarah’s skin issues is caused by gluten. It hasn’t gone away yet, and we can’t even tell if it’s getting any better at all. It’s so discouraging at times. I keep praying, asking the Lord to show us if it really is a gluten issue. If Sarah’s skin flares up after tomorrow, then we’ll know it’s gluten. We just need some encouragement that all of this is worth it. Sorry, don’t mean to sound whiny, we just need some encouragement and healing for Sarah. If it’s not gluten, we really want to know what it is so we can help her. Ok, enough of my whining. ;)

I went for my follow up surgery appointment last Wednesday, and my surgeon said I’m doing great. I’ve been released to do whatever I want, just to listen to my body. He said my incisions have healed well too. It was a great appointment. I’ve already started carrying laundry baskets again and I’ve worked out two days in a row. It’s been great, and I feel so good. I give the Lord all the glory for such a great surgery and recovery.

I haven’t taken my camera out in forever. :( I’ll have it taken out tomorrow for Paulie’s birthday, but I need to start using it more. So since I don’t have a current picture to share I’ll share one from last summer, my brother fishing in the local river by my parents house.
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Have a great weekend everyone. :)

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Fit Mommy Friday ~ 4/5

I haven’t done a Fit Mommy Friday in a while, so I thought this would be a good time. Though we’ve started eating gluten free, my goals listed here are still the same. And I need to say too that just because you go GF, don’t think it’s an automatic diet. Believe me, I can overeat just as easy with GF free food as I could before. ;)

My goals:

Physical activity:I am trying to walk most days, but since my surgery, I haven’t done a full workout. I’m hoping to start back up next week.

Shoulder and hip stretches:I did do them today. Some of the stretches were pulling by my gallbladder incisions, so I stopped doing them. I just tried them today, and it felt fine, so I’ll start them up again.

Add more fruit and vegetables to my meals:I am eating more fruits and veggies. I’m drinking more smoothies, no green smoothies yet, I really don’t think my little blender could handle them.

Watch my portion sizes:Still an issue with me, but continuing to work on it.

Eating slower and enjoying my food:Nope, failing this one completely, but like with my portion sizes, I continue to work on it.

Eating when I’m hungry, stopping when I’m satisfied:I’m doing pretty good at eating when I’m hungry, it’s the stopping when I’m satisfied that is hard.

Watch my sugar intake for my IBS:I might change this one. With a GF diet, my IBS might start getting better. At least that’s what I’ve heard, guess we’ll see.

Remember to drink water throughout the day:I usually do real good with this. Some days I might be a little off, but overall I’m continuing to drink more water.

Don’t push myself to exhaustion:I’ve been really watching it since the surgery, I find I get tired easily, so I am resting more. But thankfully I’m starting to get back to normal. Though I’m still careful and I make sure I don’t push to hard.

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My new toy

Yes, I have a new toy to play with in the kitchen. Do you want to know what it is? ;)

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Yep, I got a brand new Cuisinart food processor!!! :D I’m so exited.

I use my food processor quite a bit. I make hummus all the time, and I want to make my own peanut butter and other things. Plus, I would love to be able to shred cheese, which I couldn’t do on my current food processor, because it broke. :( Paul has talked about me getting a new food processor for a while, and I kept putting it off. Finally he said for me to order it now, and you know how I like to submit to my husband. ;) lol

On Saturday I had fun using it for the first time. I shredded some cheese, which worked nice.

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I was making cauliflower soup at the time, and I needed to chop my cauliflower and celery. This thing is more powerful than I’m use to. I think I need to not pulse it so much. lol (Don’t worry, the soup still turned out great).

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I also tried chopping some bell peppers that we like keeping chopped in the fridge for salads and such. Yes, I’m still learning how to not mulch my food and just to chop it.

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DSC_0086And what is this picture? (Mom, this picture is for you :) ).   Yes, this is my kitchen after I was done cooking and baking that day.  Usually I’m a little more cleaner than this when I’m in the kitchen, but that day when I turned and really looked at my kitchen I had to take a picture.  This is how a kitchen looks after my dad has been in there cooking.  Like daddy like daughter.  ;)

I had so much fun with my Cusinart. I can’t wait to make a batch of hummus, it’s going to be the smoothest hummus I’ve ever made. Plus I really do want to try making my own peanut butter and maybe even some of my GF flours. I love how my husband spoils me.

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Health update

I have continued to heal well from my gallbladder surgery. My surgeon told me that my gallbladder probably wasn’t working properly before, which I think is true. I’ve been feeling real good since surgery, and I can eat everything I ate before, with less bloating and discomfort. Thank you Lord.

My stitches are healing well, and I’m starting to do more and more of my normal routines. I’m still not carrying anything heavy, like laundry, but I am doing other things. But I also rest when I need too. The other day I did a major cabinet cleaning in the kitchen and afterward I was tired so I took a nap. So I know not to push myself too hard, and rest when I need to.

My gallbladder is not the only health issue in our family. We are thinking that Sarah’s rash on her hands is a gluten intolerance/allergy. We had a celiac blood test done, and that came back in the normal range. But I’m still learning what that test really means, and what being in the normal ‘range’ means.

Sarah and I both deal with IBS, and people have been telling me for years I should go gluten free because of it. But honestly, I just couldn’t have cared. I can control my IBS with enough fiber, so it really wasn’t an issue to me. But my daughter, that is another story. When we realized it could be gluten, Paul said we would all go gluten free. It does make it much easier. So we’ll see if my IBS symptoms were caused by gluten, and if it’s the cause of Sarah’s rash.

Going gluten free is not an ‘easy’ diet or quick fix, believe me. If you really started studying how much they use wheat/gluten as a filler in things, it would shock you. I’m not talking about just food, but they use it in lotions, shampoos, soaps, and so much more. But I will say here and now, I do not believe that everyone should be on a gluten free diet. I do not think this is some health kick that people should try ‘just because’. I think there are some very good nutrients in healthy wheat, and if it wasn’t for Sarah’s issue,we probably wouldn’t even be trying this.

That said, if I find it does help with my IBS (and some symptoms that Paul has been showing), Paul and I might stay GF even when Sarah isn’t around (like when we are out by ourselves). I am truly thankful that Sarah does not have celiac disease and that this isn’t a life and death situation for her. I know people who have celiac disease, a dear friend of mine does, and I know how bad that can be. Like I said, I’m blessed that its not what Sarah has. (But this dear friend is also a huge help with our changeover, thankfully.)

Sarah and I have decided that the first thing we will be learning to do is bake GF breads and goodies. To us, if we have that, the changeover won’t seem like a huge deprivation. I have been reading, getting books, getting recipes from friends and continuing to learn what it takes to bake gluten free. We know there will be a lot of trial and error and a lot of learning, but that’s ok. It’s something we need to do to help with the transition.

As Paul, Sarah and I have talked about this, the biggest thing that happens with GF living is you loose convenience, and honestly for us that is huge. It’s not that we can’t have fries anymore, we just can’t pull a bag out of the freezer and pop them in the oven, things like that. It’s not that we can’t have most of the things we like to eat, we just have to be more scheduled with it, and not just fly by the seat of our pants with food. No more guessing at 4 in the afternoon what I’m making for dinner. I have to start to make menus again, and start filling my freezer with meals that I can pull out and cook quickly. It just takes more fore-thought, and that’s not all bad. It use to be how we were, then life starts moving faster, and convenience in the kitchen becomes the norm. It’s not a horrible thing to have to change, but it is a change none-the-less.

We have decided to take the change fast yet slow. I did clean out our cabinets and gave away pastas, box pasta mixes, canned cream soups etc… (that was the big kitchen clean I talked about). And we are stocked with GF flours, breads and cereals. Yes, we are buying some things GF, again it makes the transition so much easier. We consider this weeek being the week we started GF, though we are still eating it some times. Sarah is in an Easter play all week, and they have to be there so early before the play, that the church feds them dinner. Obviously those dinners are not gluten free. Plus we are having Easter dinner with friends this Sunday, and we are not putting a burden on them, this close to the meal, to try and go gluten free. But during the day, and as much as we can, we eat gluten free.

Besides cleaning out our cabinet, we got a new toaster, that will only be used for GF bread, some more containers for the different GF flours we get and I set up a gluten area for Paulie. :) We are letting Paulie transition a lot slower than the rest of us. He likes toast a lot, so we set up our old ‘glutened’ toaster on it’s own little table in the kitchen with butter that just he uses. Then, as we get better and better at making GF breads, we’ll slowly change that for him too.

We do hope that this helps Sarah’s rash. Honestly, I am going to be quite bummed if in a couple of months, after doing this changeover, it doesn’t help. But Sarah did go GF for 3 days a few weeks ago, and she said her stomach felt better while she was off of it. So I’m pretty sure her IBS symptoms are caused by gluten. If that is the case, then she’ll stay GF, I’m sure. At least she’ll be learning young how to cook, bake and live GF. It will make it easier when she has a family. Like I said, Paul and I will see how we feel on how strict of a GF life we live.

So there is my health update, and honestly this will probably be the last one for a while. I am quite tired of talking about my health. It just seems to be the focus so much lately, and I’m tired of that focus. I thank the Lord for His healing touch with my surgery and everything since then. I pray He continues to be with us and guides us on this new journey we are about to go on. And I pray healing for the rest of the health issues in our family. But as far as this blog, I think health topics will take a break. I’ll find some new things to write and tell you about, like the new kitchen gadget my hubby bought me the other day. But that’s for another post. ;)

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A lesson in resting

I’m doing well after my surgery last week. The pain is subsiding and I’m feeling pretty good. I do tend to get tired easy, but I think that’s a combination of my body still recovering and I keep waking up in the middle of the night with coughing fits from my allergies. I started taking my allergy medicine again, but it’s taking a while to help me. And when I cough, I need to put a pillow against my stomach so I don’t pull anything. When you are woken up from a sound nights sleep, coughing and trying to find a pillow you tend to not sleep well. ;)

But honestly the hardest part of all of this is allowing my family to do the work around the house that I normally do. Yes, I have taught my children how to run a house, and they do just fine. They know their way around a kitchen, and they know how to do laundry and clean the house. I made sure they know how to do that, but there are still a lot of things that I do. Mainly I do them because I like them done the way I do it. It’s not that my husband or children do it ‘wrong’, they just don’t do it the way I would have done it, and that drives me a bit crazy at times.

The first day or two I didn’t see what they were doing, they just got things done. Now that I’m moving around more, but still not able to do much work, I see how they accomplish things. I’m trying very hard not to be cranky about it, but honestly its hard not to be sometimes. ;) It really has become a lesson in resting and allowing others to do things for me.

Though I want to push myself, and get myself up and moving, I know I need to rest more. I did drive today to my friends house to see some puppies her dog just had. It was a two minute drive, and we only stayed about 10 minutes. But by the time I got home, my side was a little tender. That’s when I realized that though walking and moving around is good for me, I still shouldn’t do anything to strenuous yet. That means I need to make sure that I continue to let my family take care of the normal household things that I do.

I am blessed that they know and do so much. I’m blessed that they don’t complain when they help me, and that they are always there for me. Now I just need to learn to allow them to do things their way and not expect them to do them mine. ;)

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Surgery

This past Thursday I had my gallbladder removed. The surgery went well, and I’m feeling good today. My surgery was at 7am, so we had to be at the hospital at 5am. I was not looking forward to getting up that early. Thankfully the hospital is only 5 minutes from our house, so we didn’t have a long drive. My mom came out on Wednesday to keep me busy with shopping and just being together so I wasn’t thinking on the upcoming surgery all day. :)

After Paul and I got to the hospital, things moved pretty quickly, thankfully. The nurses and the hospital was the best. The staff was so friendly, and very efficient too. My mom and sister were coming in early to see me before surgery and my pastor and his wife where going to stop by to pray for me. We found out the day before that my surgery was changed form 7:30am to 7am, which changed the timing for everyone. They were wheeling me out of my room, taking me to pre-op at 6:20am, earlier than we all expected, so my mom, sister, Pastor and his wife hadn’t made it yet. I was literally being wheeled down the hallway when all four of them came walking down the hall at the same time. :D I asked the orderly that was pushing me if we could stop for a minute so my pastor could pray for me. He said, sure, no problem. So right there, in the hallway was a group of us praying before my surgery. :D I was so blessed that I got to see my mom and sister and that my pastor got to pray for me before surgery. Then we found out that the orderly was a Christian also, and goes to our former church. That was pretty neat.

Pre-op went fine, and Paul got to pray for me again. Then I was given a sedative, said goodbye to hubby (trying not to cry) and they wheeled me away. Everyone was so nice and friendly in the operating room. Once I was moved onto the surgery table, and I was feeling the sedative quite a bit, they put a mask over my mouth, told me to breath deeply and that’s all I remember. The next thing I remember was hearing some guy yelling (well it sounded to me like yelling) my name. I saw a nurse sitting next to me, talking to me, though I can’t remember what she was saying. I don’t think I was in post-op long, though I don’t really remember. After that, they wheeled me back to my room and while they were getting me settled, Paul came in. I was so happy to see him.

Slowly my family came in to see me, the kids, my sister, my mom and my best friend had shown up too. They were getting me up and moving pretty quickly, and the first time I stood up I felt a bit nauseous, so they had me lie back down and gave me some anti-nausea medicine. I tried again to stand about 10 minutes later and did much better than. After I walked around a bit and used the bathroom, they said I could go home. I got dressed (with help of course), they took me in a wheel chair out to where Paul had the car waiting, and I was home by 11:30am. Paul got me set up in bed and I rested the rest of the day. Though it was so quick, I was so happy to be home. I would much rather rest and re-coup at home than in a hospital room, so I didn’t mind them getting me out so quickly.

My mom and sister made sure my family was fed while I was in surgery, and then my friend brought over some dinner that night. I was eating, but mainly mashed potatoes and eggs, that kind of food. I took myself off the narcotic pain meds that night, and now I’m just on regular ibuprofen for the discomfort. Each day I feel better, with today feeling the best so far. Though I am more tired today than the past two days. Of course it’s only been 2 days since my surgery, so I guess it’s only normal. ;)

I’m taking it easy and letting my family spoil me. Though I do get up and walk around, I’m not doing anything to strenuous right now. This is even the first day I’ve been on my laptop. We’ve been having fun as a family, hanging out and watching movies together while I recuperate. The kids don’t start school up again until Monday, but Paul has to go back to work on Sunday. I’ll continue to take it easy next week, listening to my body, and not pushing myself too hard.

I was truly surprised and blessed by the different flowers that I received. My best friend brought over some beautiful yellow roses when she brought dinner, my church family sent a pretty bouquet and my mom and sister brought over a pretty purple vase of flowers.

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I’m so blessed by family and friends that took care of me during all of this, especially my husband. He hasn’t left my side since that morning, and he has taken care of me in more ways that I can count. I look forward to continuing to feel better and more myself as I continue to heal. Thank you to those that did know about this surgery and kept me in prayer. I truly appreciate you, and I’m so thankful for your prayers for me.

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Our curriculum came!

Yep, our curriculum finally arrived here a few days ago. ‘Box’ day is an exciting event for Sarah and I. Paulie just sorts of tolerates it. ;) We kept looking at the clock, jumping up every time we heard a rumble outside, thinking it was the UPS truck, all the normal things we do on curriculum day.

It was delivered late, almost 6:30pm. Sarah was getting worried because she had to leave before 7:00pm to be at play practice for an Easter play she is going to be in. But it was delivered in time for her to open it with me. We opened it, her reminding me this is the last time we would be doing this for her. That about brought tears to my eyes. Here’s the box.

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We started unloading it all and that’s when it happened, the let down. Once we pulled everything out, this was all we had.

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Yes, I know, there is stuff there. But when we think about all the things we used to buy. All the curriculum, books, manipulatives, and just plain extras, well goodness the amount was a lot bigger. We looked at our small stash, realizing most of it was for Sarah. Paulie is using some of Sarah’s old curriculum, plus we bought some extra last year. And realized again that an era is over. :( No more waiting for big curriculum boxes, no more joy and excitement as we go through item by item and see all the fun things we ordered. Nope, that time has passed.

But we have new times to look forward too. Continuing to help her choose what she wants to do with her life, helping her with job and car choices and just enjoying our time together as she grows. Yep, there is still a lot of fun, exciting times ahead. :D

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